Conflicts, conflicts ... Because of what people just do not argue. The bone of contention can be literally any trifle. On the bus, the conflict arises from the free space between the peoples - because of the vital area between religions - because of creed, or the true interpretation of the character. In other words, the conflict arises when something because of what the controversy broke, can not be divided. If it can be easily divided, no quarrels, fights or war arose. Conflict can arise because of the different views of people on the same thing, as the basis for the conflict may lie not so pleasant for both the incident.Maybe so: a cause for serious conflict was, and himself and the dispute and its attendant consequences, the parties have not made and resolved their differences peacefully.Peacefully resolved the conflict between my classmates.Ruslan we have a very emotional guy, but his emotions he constantly sends the wrong direction. It prevents teachers to teach a class for which he is constantly criticized, causing physical damage to primary school students and their comrades. About such as Ruslan say: "Power is - do not mind." Ruslan Saturday morning, moving toward the locker room, he saw his classmate and close relative Nastya, could not resist and offered her the bandwagon. Nastya, nothing suspecting, tripped and fell into the hands of that four years ago, has already been broken. Nastya went home. Only two days after the incident, we learned that she had a very serious injury - a broken elbow. Nastya did not sleep at night, chased her around a hell of a pain in the elbow. Ruslan disturbed remorse. He knew from childhood Nastya's parents used to solve all the problems, referring to a higher authority. But this time Nastya stopped them and did not allow access to the police. Our grief joker rallied and went home to the victim. He apologized. Nasty reaction nobody could have predicted. Those words she said, stunned literally everyone. She said, "I forgive you. You're not on purpose. You do not think it will turn all that way. Yes, I am guilty. From early childhood, parents urged me to look at his feet. At first I did just that, it is a pity that this habit does not stay with me until now. "Seemingly innocent joke, but led to such consequences. And if Ruslan did not apologize? It would be much worse than it is now and the first place to himself. And then broke out to a very large and serious conflict with the involvement of parents and the police.Experiences after the conflict is much more difficult to survive. Negative emotions, heavy negative experiences - is a powerful destructive factor. For this good reason to prevent conflicts wiser than eliminate the effects of running conflict.
