How to develop social skills The science of the development of social skills includes the study of the dynamics of social interactions between individuals, groups and communities. Socially developed individuals value human rights and realize the need for harmony of social ties for the development of people. The science of social skills covers a fairly wide range, beginning with their development, and expanding the level of public awareness that leads to social activity and social transformations. Here are some tips for developing social skills.
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1 Think about the requirements of individuals and groups. People need to be heard, valuable, respected and in demand. Learn to feel it in people. For children, this means learning to share toys and play quietly on the playground. In adults, this means taking into account the needs of relatives, friends and co-workers, and also practicing disinterestedness.
2 Define your role in conflict situations. Use of excessive force, intimidation and aggression - generalized strategies during conflict resolution. Some people try to avoid conflicts at any cost. Others join passive people or behave passively-aggressively. Consider the role that you play in resolving conflict situations, and start living a more socially-serene life. Focus on the general features and things that you agree with. Too strong emphasis on social differences can lead to disharmony. For children, this may be the choice of a game that both will like. For adults it can be participation in negotiations, search for a compromise solution and other actions that will lead to better understanding and easy communication. Develop skills in conflict resolution. Take lessons in conflict resolution or spend time talking with people or watching the behavior of leaders and mentors who are known for their harmonious nature.
3 Increase your sensitivity to social order and harmony. In children and adolescents, this may mean the same attitude towards other children, regardless of their popularity or style of clothing. For adults, accordingly, an increase in sensitivity to social justice can be manifested in the fact that they will find time to watch news from around the world, and also support the development of human rights.
4 Develop toward social problems. Racism, sexism and poverty are just a few examples of issues that are devouring modern society. Children can learn more about this in the school or at home. For adults, it is a good idea to find suitable courses, participate in discussions or help in volunteer programs created by organizations that are struggling with these ailments.
5 Leave your comfort zone to practice with groups that you do not know. Departure to another part of the city or traveling to another country will present you other cultures and lifestyles that will significantly expand your vision of the world. The knowledge of different religions, cuisines and life styles will be very useful for expanding your social circle and building your attitude to different points of view.
6th Practice compassion. Social transformations require commitment to learning and understanding opposing points of view. Develop sympathy by imagining yourself in the place of people in a different financial situation or simply in worse situations. Children can be taught this if they offend another person.
7th Stick to the social skills development plan. Leaving into apathy and isolation can very easily and quickly suspend your development. Develop a plan that will support your social life. Serve your society. Find opportunities to work in schools, cultural centers, political organizations, religious communities or neighborhood activities. Take part in social activities on an ongoing basis. Find yourself an occupation that requires you to listen and fulfill your needs
The science of the development of social skills includes the study of the dynamics of social interactions between individuals, groups and communities. Socially developed individuals value human rights and realize the need for harmony of social ties for the development of people. The science of social skills covers a fairly wide range, beginning with their development, and expanding the level of public awareness that leads to social activity and social transformations. Here are some tips for developing social skills.
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Think about the requirements of individuals and groups. People need to be heard, valuable, respected and in demand. Learn to feel it in people. For children, this means learning to share toys and play quietly on the playground. In adults, this means taking into account the needs of relatives, friends and co-workers, and also practicing disinterestedness.
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Define your role in conflict situations. Use of excessive force, intimidation and aggression - generalized strategies during conflict resolution. Some people try to avoid conflicts at any cost. Others join passive people or behave passively-aggressively. Consider the role that you play in resolving conflict situations, and start living a more socially-serene life.
Focus on the general features and things that you agree with. Too strong emphasis on social differences can lead to disharmony. For children, this may be the choice of a game that both will like. For adults it can be participation in negotiations, search for a compromise solution and other actions that will lead to better understanding and easy communication.
Develop skills in conflict resolution. Take lessons in conflict resolution or spend time talking with people or watching the behavior of leaders and mentors who are known for their harmonious nature.
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Increase your sensitivity to social order and harmony. In children and adolescents, this may mean the same attitude towards other children, regardless of their popularity or style of clothing. For adults, accordingly, an increase in sensitivity to social justice can be manifested in the fact that they will find time to watch news from around the world, and also support the development of human rights.
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Develop toward social problems. Racism, sexism and poverty are just a few examples of issues that are devouring modern society. Children can learn more about this in the school or at home. For adults, it is a good idea to find suitable courses, participate in discussions or help in volunteer programs created by organizations that are struggling with these ailments.
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Leave your comfort zone to practice with groups that you do not know. Departure to another part of the city or traveling to another country will present you other cultures and lifestyles that will significantly expand your vision of the world. The knowledge of different religions, cuisines and life styles will be very useful for expanding your social circle and building your attitude to different points of view.
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Practice compassion. Social transformations require commitment to learning and understanding opposing points of view. Develop sympathy by imagining yourself in the place of people in a different financial situation or simply in worse situations. Children can be taught this if they offend another person.
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Stick to the social skills development plan. Leaving into apathy and isolation can very easily and quickly suspend your development. Develop a plan that will support your social life.
Serve your society. Find opportunities to work in schools, cultural centers, political organizations, religious communities or neighborhood activities.
Take part in social activities on an ongoing basis. Find yourself an occupation that requires you to listen and fulfill your needs
Talking wiht people in school и тд